----明辨力與心輪(之四)----
每一個人都把"愛"掛在嘴邊，愛這個、愛那個，尤其在西方世界(在印度就不會這樣)，但是其實没有任何愛。但是對錢財、對權位，人們倒是愛不釋手，這些都不是純粹的愛(Nirvaj, 即 pure love)。
母親是你的導師，(在求道的路上)你必須以個人的身份來面對導師，而不是將你的家人、叔叔阿姨、甚至祖父母等等所有的親戚都帶到霎哈嘉來。當你面對你的導師時，你必須有這個明辨力，這在霎哈嘉是非常重要的。
(譯者：將家人親戚帶進來霎哈嘉(尤其指希望霎哈嘉解決親人的問題)，在許多人看來是愛(心輪)的自然表現，但Shri
Mataji 認為過度這樣做其實會帶給霎哈嘉很大的困擾，也表示你無法走出家庭的執着，也不知道霎哈嘉是個人和母親的關係，所以是沒有明辨力的行為。)
假如經由你的心輪，你被某些人所吸引，或所謂的魅力或其他有的沒有的(譯者：指儀表、容貌等)吸引了你，這都表示你被某些非常表面的(superficial)東西所抓住，那些表面的東西其實没有任何重要的本質(gravity)在裏面。所以心輪的明辨力應該是：你和任何人的關係都是一種抽離的、没有執着(detached)，如此你的愛就可以滋養萬事萬物。(譯者：即不會因某人的某些表面的特質而被吸引，以致於特別喜歡他。)
有些人的愛執着在丈夫，有些人執着於小孩，有些人只關愛狗，或只是植物，這些都是非常没有明辨力的！你應該將你的關愛均分到萬物。或許應如此說：你應該如此地没有任何執着，以致於你對每一個人的關愛都是完全相同的。没有執着(detachment)表示你靜觀萬物，但你和任何人(或物)都沒有特別的牽扯，你是抽離在外。你只是靜靜地看著，你是一個旁觀者(witness)。假如你對每一個人都有此種的愛，那麼你將會因此種特質而大大地被祝福。
註一：江瑞凱綜合整理摘譯自Shri Mataji明善輪普祭（Hamsa Puja）的談話1991-04-28. JSM !這是一篇很長的談話，Shri
Mataji 逐一談各個輪穴應該有什麼明辨力，譯者將之分成數篇。敬請Sahaja兄弟姊妹指正。
Then comes the
Heart Chakra. We talk of love. We talk of this. We talk of that. I mean, so
much of talk of love in the West, which is never in India. But there isn’t any
love. It is such a love for money, love for positions, but there is no pure
love, Nirvaj. There’s no love like that.
So the
discretion between your family and others’ family is to be seen. Very clearly,
you will know that you are doing something wrong. This is more in India than
here, abroad.
A couple will
stay back. One by one they’ll come. All right, couples are all right. But
they’ll not bring their uncles, aunties, their aunties’ parents, their parents,
and then the grandparents and all that.
Together they
will come in one line. They will always be grouped together. All of them will
be on My head. I have seen.
There’s no
discretion there, that we are individuals as far as Mother is concerned. She is
our Mother. She’s our Guru and we have to face Her individually, not to take
all this paraphernalia with us: all our relations, my brothers or my sisters or
my this and that. So the discretion as far as the guru is concerned, is an
extremely important thing in Sahaja Yoga.
It is.. You
want Me to explain to you how the gravity acts through Nabhi. No doubt. But
through your Heart Chakra, if you gravitate at people, or sort of what you
call, the charisma of a person or some sort of a nonsense, or the charmingness
of a person, that means you’re attracted towards something that is extremely
superficial and not at something which has gravity in it. So, the discretion at
the Heart is to have a relationship which is so detached that you nourish
everything, every part of your family.
Now somebody’s
attached to the husband, somebody’s attached to children, somebody’s attached
to the dogs, somebody’s attached to the, only to the plants. Is very
indiscreet.
You should be
attached to everything the same, same way. I would say that you should be so
detached that you are attached to everyone equally. Detachment doesn’t mean
that you wear dresses or scantily. It doesn’t mean that. It’s a wrong idea.
Detachment means that you watch everything, and you do not get involved with
anyone. You are out of it, and you are seeing everything, watching it, you’re a
witness. This sort of love if you have for anyone, you will be blessed by
that personality very much more.
