------ 你曾有許多老婆(丈夫)，但沒有過自覺 ------
你必須改變你的許多想法。在(數不盡的)前世裏，你曾經擁有過許多房子，有許多的老婆(丈夫)，也有過許多的小孩，但是你没有過"自覺"。所以這一世的你不應該把心思放在(周遭的)他人身上，你應該把心思放在自己。這是你累世以來唯一的一次機會，你不應該再錯失此機會，你應該告訴自己：我必須做這個，我必須得到它(自覺)，我必須(在這一世)有所成就！
在霎哈嘉裏，我希望你們有婚姻，但是婚姻不是最重要的事，婚姻只是一種助力，你可以從你的丈夫(妻子)得到互補，如此你會發展得更好。但是婚姻中任何的逆流與障礙都可能對你的昇進造成很大的阻礙，所以不要放太多的注意力在這些婚姻中的不快，應該將你的注意力從其中脱離出來。要儘量保持在你的真我(Self)，因為只有真我才能帶給你喜樂與昇進，而不是其他的人。只有當你把心思放在真我，只有當你了解到自己才是最重要的，如此你(這一世)才可能有所成就。
註一：1990年3月 Shri Mataji 的澳紐之行中，於不同集體談到相同的話題，江瑞凱摘譯自Shri Mataji 類似的談話1990-03-12、1990-03-20。 JSM ! 敬請霎哈嘉兄弟姊妹們指正。
You
have to change all these ideas. You have had many houses, you have had many
wives and many children in your previous life. You never had your realization –
now you have got it. So now just every individual, every one of you should not
think of others, think of yourself, “I have to do it, I have to get it, I have
to work it out.” This is what you have to do. “Why should I miss it?” This is a
chance of many lives, the chance of many lives. And that’s how you can jump
over, and work it out.(1990-03-20)
Now,
there’s another aspect of Sahaja Yoga that we want people to be married.
Married but married is not the last thing, is not the last thing, is just an
assistance, we can say, a complement from the another side so that you develop
yourself better. But any kind of hindrance in the marriage can be a great
hindrance for your ascent. So don’t pay any attention to such hindrances, just
get out of it and try to remain your Self because only it is your Self which is
going to give you joy and ascent, not anybody else. It will all work out when
if you just keep to your Self and understand that you are important, you have
to look after your ascent, also that the collective of Sahaja Yoga is
important. (1990-03-12)
